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Let's just start this out bluntly. For every guy who has used the phrase, "I'm not like any other guy." you made it it harder for that one special girl to believe in it. Unlike the hundreds of using guys out there, i actually want to know what you are thinking, how you are feeling, or what you are doing, etc. and please for all those ignorant girls who say i just want a good guy in my life, well you had/have one right in front of you!!! This one girl, i dreadfully but thankfully say i am great firends with, i met when we weren't suppose to. to explain that i have to explain all the "coincidences" or as i say things that don't happen to other people and can only be explained as if we were in a movie!! Anything or anybody i spoke of I saw within the next day as if it were fate. anyway we met at a concert that she wasn't suppose to go to because she was late and showed up there near the last few songs and when i saw her, i COULD NOT notice any other obsticle in the room. such beauty was radianting from her like she was glowing. i got courage to go speak to her and i became starstruck. she was like me in soooooooo many ways to where i didn't feel like an outsider anymore. i made her laugh and to this day i still can't forget that smile. i don't want to drag out what she means to me because it can't end. so, we started dating and i felt...whole. i didnt wanna do her or any extreme affectionate way. i gained happiness by holding her hand. and this amazing relationship abruptly ended by her mom. i was distraught. couple days later she said she was over me but wanted to stay friends????? didn't think i could ever get hurt like that. after many depressing "cries to sleep" she asked me to come over her house and we kissed and got back together for 2 days. and she said she couldnt be more than friends but only friends...... after many bickerings over this we are now best friends and she "seems" perfectly fine with this but me.... I hurt everyday. hiding the fact that this is a fate worse than death. i am stuck and only want her......... so thats the short version of my predicament... short. we act like a couple, talk like a couple, look like a couple, but here we stay "just friends." my question is how can we go from I love you to no feelings at all. she seems content and i am in a hell hole. i can't move on nor will i allow myself to. we stoppped being friends briefly and things went terrible for both of us and during that charade i find out she had sex with some guy while drunk!!! i cant get that damn image out of my head and all i feel is anger and depression, loathing everyday. i treat her like a queen and i cant feel the love that i wish to have. just to hold her hand one more time... i am lost and don't know where to go. i am asking for help, but if the help you are going to give is "move on" or "you'll find someone better" or anything like that save your time because that's not MY answer. i won't give up on this. there is much, much more to say about my situation but i am done.

You don't want an answer like "move on" or "you'll find someone better"? You sound like your 17, relationship ended by her mom? Sounds like an excuse. It takes some serious guts to suck it up and accept the fact that some women don't want you. It is really difficult but you have to want her to be happy even if it is not with you. Some guys have to do this several times or just once, but thats romance, a limerance can go on for years but no worries, it fades, but just dont' get overwhelmed and defeated by your emotions. Let them play out, its not easy, let this be motivational for you, not defeating.