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Christian Cafe Keeps sending emails

Authored by: Katherine316 on Saturday, December 22 2018 @ 12:53 pm

Check out article by Newstatesman on dating apps and addiction. it is all about making us come back & get addicted (for $profit). They even have the timing downpat. My fiancé was a paid member of Christian cafe 2.5 years ago. they never stopped emailing him matches to try to get him back. It turns out in an argument last year, which coincided on a free weekend, he clicked and then kept clicking on free weekends, and started email relationships with many women, pretending to be single. (Yes, his problem I know, & a very damaged likely irreparable relationship). The articles/studies compare dating app dopamine highs to those of cocaine, gambling, porn. He was a former (20 year ago) cocaine addict & now has this new addiction he can't seem to control. Only 5% of relationships start online & most never meet the people they correspond with on sites like this. But many people can't seem to help clicking, anticipating, hoping.
We had a heck of a time deleting his profile. Like the poster said, you can't change it if you don't pay. and you can't delete it. They keep showing your expired profile to others to alert you and draw you back & others think there are more available people on there than there are. We finally had to wait to a free weekend and delete the photos and all the words & actually typed in the profile something like, "I am engaged and can't seem to delete this profile. please don't contact me". then sent a message to "contact us" & said remove this profile. I am engaged!" Before it got deleted (we hope it is deleted or at least still empty!) there were actually women from overseas who still contacted him. Odd.

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