What's so Great about being Single? Lots!

Valentine's Day has a way of making those who are not in relationships more self-conscious about their single status. The holiday shouldn't be about over-the-top romantic gestures or a celebration of couples, but rather a celebration of love in general.

Instead of lamenting about what you don't have in your life, consider this an opportunity to enjoy all the things you do. Also, it's a chance to bring a spark of romance back into your life...that's what the holiday is all about, right?

Some ways to celebrate being single:

Enjoy time with your friends. Plan dinner, drinks or a fun outing to a new gallery or theatre show. Friendship can be the most supportive love of all.

Pamper yourself. Maybe you'd like a spa day, or a relaxing bubble bath at home. Go ahead and treat yourself to a little indulgence.

Travel spontaneously. Splurge a little for a weekend getaway to a place you've always wanted to check out, or plan the trip to Japan that you've always dreamed of. There's nothing holding you back.

Get to know yourself anew every day. Whether you pursue a long-time passion or discover a new hobby, you open yourself up to trying new things and learning more about what works for you.

Some fun ways to attract romance:

Go to a local event like a farmer's market or art show opening. Take your time strolling through. Introduce yourself to someone new and strike up a conversation. What's the worst that could happen?

Buy a drink for a man sitting next to you at the bar. Instead of waiting to be approached or for a hot guy to make eye contact, extend some love to others who are on their own. It will put you in a great mindset for attracting people to you.

Hang out with a cool couple. If you know some adventurous and happy couples, start spending time with them! Their enthusiasm is usually contagious, and besides, they're a lot of fun. Surrounding yourself with people living life to the fullest helps you do the same.