Virtual Flirting: How to use Facebook and Twitter to your Dating Advantage

People seem to be accessible 24/7, or at least, most have a Twitter account or a Facebook page that they check regularly. Why not use these tools as more than social networks and meet some other singles?

Following are some tips to use Facebook or Twitter to your advantage when looking for potential dates:

Revise your Facebook profile.

Much like on online dating site, Facebook provides a profile page for you to show off pictures, what your interests are, and a little about yourself. So instead of posting a picture of your dog for your main visual, have a friend take some nice candid shots. Include other photos of yourself doing interesting activities...traveling, surfing, playing music, or whatever you like. List a few things about yourself that you like to do (as conversation starters), but keep it to a minimum. Not only do you not want too much detail about yourself available online, but you also want to let some mystery remain when you meet potential dates.

Don't friend someone you haven't met.

If you like your Facebook friend's friend, don't rush to "friend" him or her to try and meet. Likely if they have never met you, they will be hesitant to add you to their roster. Instead, try sending a message to your friend to make introductions. If he or she is hesitant, move on. If you have already met your interest, send her a message reminding of how you met so she has some context to accept your request.

Update your status, but not excessively.

Many of us like instant gratification. We post a comment, picture, or status on Twitter or Facebook, and we want people to respond right away. If you're trying to elicit a response from someone specific by posting your status every five minutes, you'll likely send the wrong message. It's good to check in on these sites, but you don't want to be perceived as having nothing to do or being desperate for attention.

Don't over-comment.

Remember, this is flirting, not cyber-stalking. Just because you can post a comment at any time doesn't mean you should. Be respectful and only comment when you feel it's appropriate. Also, keep it light and fun rather than serious.

Message someone who shares the same "likes" as you

If you are a supporter of a volunteer group or a fan of a local comedy troupe, there may be opportunities to meet other single fans. Messaging someone who is a member of a group you belong to is a great way to meet new people and expand your network, and makes it easier to strike up a conversation.

Safety comes first.

Remember to be safe and don't meet an online (or Facebook) date in person without taking proper precautions. Always meet in a public place and let a friend know where you are and what time you'll be home.