How to be True to Yourself in a Relationship

When you're falling in love, you tend to put your best foot forward and portray yourself as the ideal girlfriend or boyfriend. After all, you've found a new love and you want things to work. Unfortunately, even the most confident among us can find ourselves hiding our quirks and weaknesses in favor of looking and acting perfect to please someone else.

Remember that as a relationship progresses however, the things you try to hide will eventually surface, so it's best to be your authentic self from the beginning. Don't try to change yourself to please someone else. After all, if he or she is right for you, they will love the quirky, weird things about you, too.

Following are some tips to help you stay true to yourself:

It's okay to say what you think. Instead of agreeing with him about your favorite television show or how you like your eggs, don't be afraid to be your own person. You don't have to like everything he does, or be afraid to disagree with him on sports, politics, or anything else. Say what you mean. He will respect you for your own choices and opinions. If he doesn't, he's not right for you.

Don't give in to your insecurities. Do you think your job is not up to his standards, or that your body isn't sexy enough? Instead of dismissing yourself and your chances because of some perceived flaw, own it. If he cares about you and pursuing a relationship, these things won't matter. He will think you're sexy and successful as you are.

Show off your passions. Is he introducing you to new activities, music, or movies? You should return the favor and let him into your world. Maybe he won't enjoy your interests and hobbies as much as you do, but he will appreciate your passion for them. Don't shy away from what you love because you think his activities are more interesting or valid. We all have our quirks and fascinations; don't be afraid to show them.

Avoid jealousy. Maybe you think she's too hot for you because guys hit on her all the time. Instead of letting your jealousy get the best of you, relax and let the relationship flow. Be yourself, and don't worry about whether she'll stay with you. Confidence is most attractive. If she's right for you, there won't be any question.

Take it easy. Instead of worrying about what could go wrong or trying to please someone else, relax. This doesn't help any relationship. Instead, enjoy each day and stop trying to be someone else. Again, if they are worth it, they will like you for who you are.