Study Discovers The Dating Habits Of Senior Citizens

- Sunday, March 03 2013 @ 09:55 am
- Contributed by: ElyseRomano
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Seniors are only interested in marriage, right?
Seniors don't care about sex, right?
And seniors definitely don't online date, right?
Wrong, wrong, and - you guessed it - wrong.
Matchmaker.com knows exactly what mature singles are up to, and it turns out they're not that much different from their younger counterparts.
First, let's clear up a few common misconceptions. Singles over the age of 55 represent 25% of Matchmaker.com's member base, so seniors definitely aren't shy about giving online dating a shot. And their attitudes toward dating, serious relationships, marriage, and sex might not be what you think.
On Marriage:
- Most senior singles don't want to get married again. 80% of women and 75% of men are only in it for a serious relationship.
- Children are sometimes the reason senior singles prefer to steer clear of new marriages. 30% of women are worried that a second marriage would hurt their kids. On the other hand, only 4% of male seniors are concerned about the same thing.
- Men who don't want to get married again also say they don't think they could fall in love again (52%), are only interested in companionship (37%), and don't want to share their finances (7%).
- Women's reasons for wanting to stay unmarried tend to be different. Most are only looking for an activity partner, others have fears regarding children, apprehensions around finances, and concerns that they can't fall in love again.
On Sex:
- Sex doesn't fall by the wayside as singles get older. In fact, for many, it becomes more important than ever. The majority of single senior men (65%) say they are much more sexually active now than when they were married. A significant portion of single senior women (45%) agree.
- 95% of senior men rank sex as "Very important" in their lives, followed by 5% who say it's "Somewhat important" and 0% who say it's "Not at all important."
- Most senior women also consider sex "Very important" (85%), though some think it's "Not at all important" (10%) and others say it's "Somewhat important" (5%).
On Relationships:
- Senior men are primarily looking for a serious relationship (75%). Marriage (15%), meeting a sexual partner (7%), and finding a companion for activities (3%) are less important goals.
- Senior women are generally in agreement. Most want a serious relationship (80%), but some are looking for marriage (11%), companionship (7%), or a sexual partner (2%).
On Love:
- Senior men are more romantic than senior women. 55% of men who want to get married are hoping to fall in love again. Comparatively, only 25% of mature female singles hope to fall in love with a new partner.
- Companionship is also a powerful motivator for new relationships. 25% of men and 60% of women say it's what led them to online dating.
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