Newly Single? Tips for Starting your Dating Life off Right

Break-ups can be devastating, especially if it's the end of a marriage or long-term relationship. If some time has gone by and you're ready to get back out there again (or maybe for the first time), following are some tips for how to approach your new life and have a little fun.

Have fun!

Many of us make the mistake when we date of thinking that every guy we meet should be "the one" or it's a failure. This is simply not true. It's fine to ease in to dating. If you aren't clicking, it's not the end of the world. It's just good practice for the next one, so have fun and enjoy what you can!

Give yourself a make-over.

Maybe it's a new haircut or a new outfit, but whatever the case, giving ourselves a fresh look helps us mentally with making a new start. When you look good and feel good, you attract more people to you.

Don't look for a rebound.

Maybe you're trying to get back at your ex and obtain a hot, new boyfriend. This is not a good way to start of your dating life. Instead of looking for a rebound romance, concentrate on what you've learned from your previous relationship and what you want in your next partner.

Avoid talk of your ex.

Many people coming out of relationships fall into this trap. Remember that talk of your ex isn't appropriate when you're first getting to know someone. You could end up spending the evening bashing former loves instead of getting to know one another, which won't endear you to your date. Keep the conversation light and fun, and ask questions to keep the focus off your past.

Don't drink excessively.

Maybe you're nervous, but know your limits and tolerance when it comes to alcohol consumption. You don't want to feel out of control when you're meeting someone for the first time.

It's not as scary as it seems.

Perhaps your single girlfriends think "all the good ones are taken". This is simply not true, as 41% of the adult population is single according to the most recent U.S. Census. Being single again is different, but it doesn't have to be difficult. There are many men to meet and many experiences to have. Have fun and take this time to figure out what you really want in your next relationship.