Reasons to Celebrate being Single over the Holidays

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  • Thursday, December 09 2010 @ 01:07 pm
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We're in the middle of the holiday season, and for many, it's a time of feeling more noticeably "single" when attending parties and family gatherings. For those who are looking for partnership, this can be rough. But being single over the holidays is far from a bad thing...in fact, there are many reasons to embrace your single status.

When it seems like grass is greener for those in relationships, remember there are many reasons to rejoice if you're spending this holiday without a significant other. Following are a few:

  • You can travel/do whatever you want. Instead of being tied down to family obligations, you are flying solo, so that means more options! If you want to take a trip to Cancun and unwind, go for it! There are plenty of resources if you'd like to join a travel group for your dream trip.
  • You can decorate how you want. If you don't feel like decorating a tree or lighting a menorah, there's no reason you should. If you'd rather go all-out and string lights all over your house, you have that option too.
  • You can meet more people at parties. When you're single, you automatically attract more interest and attention at parties where other singles are in attendance. Since the holiday season is a time for parties, you can put yourself out there, have more fun, and expand your network. Go ahead and flirt.
  • You don't have to choose who to be with. When you have a partner, you usually end up splitting time with families over the holidays, or having to choose. This can create added travel expense and a drain on your time. Instead, you can be with your family if you choose, and travel wherever and whenever you want.
  • No in-laws. If you are in a relationship, chances are you have to spend time with your significant other's family. If you don't get along well or you're meeting them for the first time, this could make the holidays incredibly stressful.
  • New Years Eve! What's more fun than party-hopping on New Years' Eve? It's a chance to hang out with your friends and have fun. The best part? Most singles are out, so it's a chance to meet people who you wouldn't normally run into at other times of the year. When it comes to dating, taking a few chances and putting yourself out there could reap unexpected benefits.