Places to Meet Other Singles (Offline)

Many of us have tried online dating. There are so many ways to meet people that the old cliché of "there's nobody out there" is not only counter-productive, but untrue. So, maybe it's time to stand up and introduce yourselves to the 96 million other American adults who are single (not to mention all the singles in other countries!)

Since not all singles are online, there are other ways to meet them. The best strategy is being open to any and all opportunities, because you never know when and how you'll meet. Life can take you by surprise. Isn't that the beauty of the process?

Following are some places (outside the bar scene) where you can be open to meeting new people and asking them out. What's to lose?

Coffee shops. This one may seem obvious, but it's really a good place and is often overlooked. Many people spend significant time hoping to "run into" a prospective date by waiting in line for their favorite latte, but then don't actually talk to anyone because they get intimidated. Next time, speak up and say hello to the cute guy standing next to you. You never know.

Public transportation. I live in L.A. which doesn't lend itself to mass transit, but if you live in the northeastern U.S., San Francisco, or other places more subway-friendly, use it! Talk to the woman you see every day going to work. Ask her what she's listening to, or what she's reading. It's time to make an introduction.

Grocery stores. I've gotten a few dates while strolling leisurely down the aisles. If you're always in a hurry, you could miss that guy who keeps trying to catch you in the produce section. Pay attention, smile, and invite conversation.

Walking your dogs. If you don't have a dog, walk around your neighborhood. This is another great way I met several dates. If you've noticed a cute guy walking his dog at 6:30 every evening, make a point to say hello and start a conversation. There's no time like the present.

Laundromats. Since you have nothing but time to kill while you're waiting for your clothes to dry, it's a great time to strike up conversation. Ask to borrow some laundry detergent or fabric softener, even if you have some. The point is, be brave and approach.

Remember to be courageous when it comes to meeting people. The more often you practice, the better you get.