How are your Dating Manners?

Some people claim chivalry is dead, but I think it gives you an advantage in the world of dating. Many men and women have neglected manners in their dating experience, mostly because it's easier to meet and run if you don't feel an instant spark. Some have even forgotten how to date with any thoughtfulness.

When I write about manners, I'm not talking about some old-fashioned sense of dating or "courting," I'm talking about the basics. Following are some tips to shine on all of your dates, making you an irresistible catch.

Ask him/her out on a date. Instead of texting and inviting the object of your affection to "hang out" so you don't risk rejection, make a bold move and ask her out on a real date. This way, there is no ambiguity when it comes to your budding relationship either.

Plan! This is an easy one: everyone likes the effort someone puts in to plan a date, male or female. Don't just agree to meet "later on this week" or "grab a drink after work." Let her know you're interested by stating the place, date and time to meet. Also, it helps to describe why you're choosing that particular place...whether it's to try a new spot or because you think she might like it. This scores a lot of points.

Cultivate some mystery. Instead of going into a date with a laundry list of questions or a description of what you're looking for in the perfect partner, create some mystery. Hold back. This isn't about deceiving your date, it's about not treating him or her to every detail of your life. In the day of Twitter, Facebook, and reality television, it's nice to get to know someone slowly but surely.

Remember the little things. Whether it's opening a door for a woman or keeping step with her instead of walking in front, a little consideration goes a long way. Also, try not to interrupt when your date is talking. It's the same as answering a cell phone call in the middle of a date.

Take your time. Instead of racing to the finish line because you want to know right now whether or not your date is right for you, take things one step at a time. Go on a second date, then a third. Let conversation flow without pressuring questions that may turn a date off. Don't jump to categorize your relationship on Facebook or otherwise. Take things slowly but surely, and you'll be much more aware of when it's right for you.