How Do You Know if Your Relationship is Over?

Most people know when a relationship no longer feels right, but often don't want to admit it. We'd rather make excuses, and sometimes we stay longer in a relationship that isn't working because we're scared to be alone. We may need a little help in listening to that voice inside of us that knows when to leave.

If you're contemplating leaving your current relationship but still have doubts as to whether or not it's the right decision, following are some signs that you'll be better off without your SO (significant other).

You make plans with everyone else but him. You may tell yourself you just want to see your friends, but if you prefer to go out with them rather than your boyfriend, that's a pretty good sign that the relationship is waning and maybe you're done. If you're not comfortable sharing and being with him, then it's difficult to build your relationship.

You aren't happy. Do you find yourself dreading being with your boyfriend? Is having fun together only a thing of the past? I'm the first one to say everyone is responsible for their own happiness, but in a good relationship, this comes easily. If you find it hard to connect and enjoy yourself, it's likely because you've grown apart.

You fight about everything, even little things. Do you find yourself arguing over insignificant things that you should really let go of? If your anger is getting the best of you when interacting with your boyfriend, likely it's because you're unhappy staying. Instead of finding excuses to fight, have an honest conversation with your SO and be true to yourself about how you really feel and what you want.

You compromise yourself in the relationship. If you find yourself compromising your beliefs, opinions, or values because you're afraid of how your partner will react, this is a good time to rethink your relationship. Your SO is there to support you as much as you're supporting her. If you aren't free to be yourself, that's a sure sign that she isn't right for you.

No mutual respect. This is the foundation for any successful relationship. Respect is about accepting each other for who you are, and not trying to belittle or change each other. If you don't treat each other with respect, how can you build a connection together?

The most important thing to remember is, if you have any doubts or if you're unhappy most of the time, there is likely a good reason. Don't be afraid to let go. This action will lead you to a future relationship that is right for you.