Dating Mistakes Women Make

- Saturday, August 21 2010 @ 08:48 am
- Contributed by: kellyseal
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Do you consider yourself unlucky in love? If you have had a few dating disasters, or can't seem to get past the first date and into a relationship, maybe it's time to self-reflect. We could all use a little improvement and awareness when it comes to dating. After all, we want to attract the right man to us, right?
If you find yourself stuck in an endless cycle of first dates, consider the following:
Do you come on too strong? Women today are independent, strong, and successful. These are all wonderful qualities, but if you feel secure in yourself, you don't try to prove you are all of these things to the men you date. Instead of taking charge like you do at work, learn to listen and engage him as well. How else will you know if he's a good match? He isn't a client, he's your date.
Are you too needy? If you've had a great date and he hasn't asked you out again, don't call or text him several times hoping to get a response. If he is interested, he will call. If you find yourself falling for guys too quickly before you really know them, take a step back and keep your options open. Remember, you're entitled to date several guys at once until you decide to become exclusive with someone.
Are you too critical? Sometimes women can be critical or judgmental, especially when it comes to their dates. Before you dismiss a guy because he doesn't meet everything on your checklist, recognize that you probably don't meet everything on his checklist either. Try getting to know him before you judge him.
Do you have a bad attitude? Ok, so you've been hurt before. This is no excuse to write all men off as losers or deadbeats. There are plenty of nice guys who are ready and open for a relationship. These guys won't be interested in someone who prefers to concentrate on past wrongdoings. Leave your baggage at the door and come in with an open mind.