Dating 101: How to Leave a Good Impression

Though dating can be confusing with a lot of mixed signals from both men and women, there are also a few basic rules of etiquette that have become lost in the past few years. Social networking and online dating have brought the dating world to a whole new level in terms of how many people you can meet, but they have also allowed us to slack in terms of manners. Why be on your best behavior when there might be someone "better" around the corner?

But we should be on our best behavior while dating, if only to leave a good impression. Especially if we want a second date!

Some basic rules:

Guys, do not comment on a woman's body. Even if you think she is hot or has a great figure, please do not tell her when you first meet her. This will give her the impression that you're only interested in her body and in having sex with her. Unless this is true, don't portray yourself to be so shallow.

Offer to pay. This goes for both men and women: it's a classy thing to offer to pick up the check on a first date and level the playing field. Although you may want to feel wined and dined, it's not a man's responsibility to pay for everything. Likewise for the guys: if you offer to pay, you'll look like a gentleman.

Keep the conversation light. Even if you just broke up with your crazy boyfriend or had a hard day at work, he doesn't need to hear about it. First date conversation should be light and fun, putting both parties at ease and leaving on a positive note, instead of feeling emotionally drained.

Do not brag. Even if you just bought a new house on the lake or got a promotion at work, a woman doesn't want to hear your list of accomplishments. This is not the way to make a lasting impression. Women are looking for genuine connection, so try engaging her in conversation and asking questions instead of listing off your impressive resume of qualities.

Follow up. If you really liked her, give her a call! There are no rules about waiting anymore. With texting, it's easy to follow up and let someone know you had a good time. And if you ask her out again? Give her a call and make some real plans. Don't leave her hanging with a vague "we should catch up soon".