Attention Guys: How to tell if a Woman is Interested
- Sunday, December 12 2010 @ 09:54 am
- Contributed by: kellyseal
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Many singles come away from a first date feeling excited, only to have the budding relationship fizzle before it even gets started. But what is really going on? Are you misinterpreting signals or body language? Does she know you find her attractive? Is she really interested in you?
If you want to pursue her, there are a few things to look for to gauge her interest. If you do feel a connection, the best practice is to pursue her and see what happens. Most women aren’t initiators when dating, so be honest and let her know how you feel. Following are some tips to help you figure out if the feeling is mutual.
1. Body language – if she holds her arms close or crosses them in front of her, leans back, or doesn’t make eye contact, chances are she is not interested. If she leans in, touches your hand or arm, or acts in an affectionate or playful manner, those are clear signals that she feels some chemistry.
2. She engages you in conversation - if a woman is interested, she asks you questions and responds to yours with thoughtful or flirtatious answers. If you find her responding to questions with a couple of words, or with a lack of interest, it’s probably time to move on.
3. Responsiveness – like men, women are very responsive to someone who they find attractive. If you find your texts and calls going unanswered, or your dates getting postponed, that’s a sign that she’s not interested. Don’t take it personally, but likely she is unwilling to be direct and let you know that she isn’t interested in pursuing a relationship. So, stop calling her and move on.
4. She asks you about the next date. If a woman ends a date with the question, “so, when can we see each other again?” she means it. Most women wouldn’t offer this right away if they weren’t genuinely interested, so by all means don’t wait to call her in a couple of days before scheduling your next date, do it now!
If you want to pursue her, there are a few things to look for to gauge her interest. If you do feel a connection, the best practice is to pursue her and see what happens. Most women aren’t initiators when dating, so be honest and let her know how you feel. Following are some tips to help you figure out if the feeling is mutual.
1. Body language – if she holds her arms close or crosses them in front of her, leans back, or doesn’t make eye contact, chances are she is not interested. If she leans in, touches your hand or arm, or acts in an affectionate or playful manner, those are clear signals that she feels some chemistry.
2. She engages you in conversation - if a woman is interested, she asks you questions and responds to yours with thoughtful or flirtatious answers. If you find her responding to questions with a couple of words, or with a lack of interest, it’s probably time to move on.
3. Responsiveness – like men, women are very responsive to someone who they find attractive. If you find your texts and calls going unanswered, or your dates getting postponed, that’s a sign that she’s not interested. Don’t take it personally, but likely she is unwilling to be direct and let you know that she isn’t interested in pursuing a relationship. So, stop calling her and move on.
4. She asks you about the next date. If a woman ends a date with the question, “so, when can we see each other again?” she means it. Most women wouldn’t offer this right away if they weren’t genuinely interested, so by all means don’t wait to call her in a couple of days before scheduling your next date, do it now!
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