Top Ten - Online Dating Benefits

- Wednesday, December 13 2006 @ 01:16 pm
- Contributed by: Editor
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Welcome to another article in our top ten series. The focus of this dating service article will be on the benefits of online dating when compared to dating in the traditional sense.
- Cheaper - Before online dating, most
singles went to a a bar or dance club to try and meet other singles.
While this is fun, it is a hard way for a lot of people to meet someone.
To succeed this way you need an outgoing personality. Plus, you do not
get an accurate representation of meeting someone new in a noisy, busy
environment. For the cost of going out for a single night (taxi,
drinks, food, etc...) you could get at least a 6 month membership on most
popular dating sites.
- Faster - Meeting someone online is a
lot faster than traditional dating. Just login to your online dating
site and perform a few simple searches to bring up your potential matches.
From here, if they are online, try sending them an instant message request
or your could write a personal email that is tailored to the individual.
- Dating Safety - This is important.
When using your typical dating site, all mail and communication remains
anonymous. This means that the person you are communicating with will know
your screen name (nick name) but will not know your real name, phone number
and address until you decided when and if this is the right person to give
this information too.
- Dating Site Security - Say you
started mailing or chatting to someone online and you found out he or she
turned out to be a real pain and now they will not leave you alone. In
online dating this is not a major problem. Most dating sites allow you
to block members from appearing in your search results, sending you mail and
chatting to you. This is usually as easy as clicking on the block button
that appears next to their name in the search results or on their profile
detail page. If you need too, you can always go a step further and
report them to the dating site customer support.
- The Number of Singles
- When using an online dating service you have access to potentially
millions of singles from your home computer. It all depends on your
search criteria and how far you are willing to travel.
- Initiating Contact - It is easier to
send a carefully composed email than walking up to someone to initiate
contact at a bar. Plus, you know when the person is reading your mail
he or she is actively looking to meet someone online.
- Get to know the person - With a
reasonable degree of accuracy you have a great deal of information about the
person instantly. You will have such information as their interests,
location, education, description and most likely a photo. Plus, you
will have such deal breaker details such as if the person is interested in
having children, if they smoke and their religious preferences. This
type of information hardly ever comes up in the first few times of meeting
new people using traditional dating methods. You also get to
communicate with this person remotely as long as you want until you decide
if you want to go on a date.
- Everyone is Available
- Who joins a dating service unless they want to meet someone. Going
out to a bar or a club to meet singles for dating can be successful but most
likely less than half the people at these places are there to meet someone
to create a relationship. They may be there just for a good time with
their friends.
- Meeting New People - With dating
online meeting new people is a snap. If you find yourself always
dating the same type of people and it's not working out, online dating
allows you to easily search for people with different interests and
personalities, who says opposites attract!
- Rejection - Face to face rejection is hard. In online dating a simple email stating "No, I am not interested." is a lot easier to receive plus it is expected that not all the profiles you mail may be interested in you. These dating site members may already be talking to someone or possibly something in your profile may have not interested them .
When you use online dating correctly and with all the benefits listed here, you will almost always succeed in finding someone to date and maybe share the rest of your life together.