I agree they are all crap, Womens wish list is crazy.

Couldn't agree more, heavily populated with women who just like to 'browze', have massive shopping lists,  form online 'relationships' and have no intention of meeting people in the REAL world for REAL relationships (because neurotic head-cases are attracted to online dating sites), or want Prince Charming even though they may be nothing special themselves, oh and it would be nice to see some RECENT, ACCURATE photos. Also the same crap occurs on other sites too so guys don't waste your time and money, might as well take your hard-earned to a brothel or go overseas if you want to search for a long-term partner.

Its kind of a weird "culture of the site" thing. When rsvp was first created I became a member. Had a middling success rate in getting replies... say 1 in 5 or so. Not great but about par for the course in the online world I find. A long time later, Fairfax (a local newspaper/magazine group) bought them and somehow the culture of the place changed. Now, I seem to average 1 in 50 or worse, replies to the their free kisses (i.e. either no reply or a "not interested" reply). Its possible that now they're simply attracting fussier women (and yes I agree with the earlier posts that many there seem to waiting for the Adonis with millions to come rescue them from their humdrum existance) and I don't measure up or as has also been noted that all the same old faces are there (I may be one of them in my gender group too...). Whatever the cause, the current dating pool there is very fussy/judgemental and seems unwillinging to take any sort of chance outside the narrow range of types they are used to dating. In short, while the site is quite legitimite, you may not have any great success for your money there.

E.

For Males

Expect low response rates from kisses, 1 in 20 would be above average.  For Emails, be prepared to waste 1 in 2.  As previously mentioned it is legitimate site and there are genuine people both male and feamle looking.  The drawback is that low repsonse rate that may lead to frustration.  Entering it with eyes wide open, keep the expectations fairly conservative.  In consideration, getting one date, from a month of searching, kissing and email would be considered a fairly successful month.  If you're expecting more than a date, the site will most likley fail to meet expectations.

J

 I just got a hidden charge for 34$.  I paid my membership fee, and my stamp fee, i got no idea what the 34$ was for.

I am pretty sure they have people sending out KISSES and then when they say they would like to hear from you, they dont reply.  But you just spent $10 on a stamp!. Not cheap!!!!

I found out another dating company was doing this.  Theey would contact you, lead you on, and fake it.  The way I found this out, is because although the profiles said Brisbane, the english used in them was very bad, and often mentioned foreign generally american football teams which no one hear, specially girls follow.   So I think the low success rate is this in action. Fake ppl made by the company, to make you keep wanting to reply more. 

Can someone get me a telephone number? there is no customer service here at all that I can find.  I would like to report this crap.. $150 - 200 they have got from me in the last 3 weeks, because I thought I was writing to girls who would actually write back.  Instead I just spent stamps, and never got any reply.  DONT USE ONLINE DATING.  Its all a scam, 95% anyway.