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eHarmony Review (eHarmony.com)

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Thursday, January 03 2013 @ 07:10 pm

I was on Eharmony about 8 years ago, was not worth it. A very frustrating system, where your first contacts back and forth are answers to questions provided by Eharmony., not actual email communications. At any time in the process, either party can click a button, and *poof* , they're gone. So you're looking at a pic of an attractive girl/guy, wishing you could just get an email chat going and instead you're playing this silly question/answer game, and suddenly they've dropped you and you don't know why.

It's a very empty feeling when suddenly the person is gone, especially when you've gotten to the email stage and perhaps they took something the wrong way. There was one persistent local woman who kept badgering me (she had no photo in her ad) until I finally cut off communication with her. Apparently she contacted Eharmony begging them to let her communicate with me again because a week letter I got an email from the site saying this person wanted to re-establish contact! So I figured what the heck and finally insisted on seeing a photo... and forgive me, but she was hideous!

eHarmony Review (eHarmony.com)

Authored by: Kim-Down Under (Anonymous User) on Thursday, January 10 2013 @ 11:30 pm

A heart felt thank you to everyone who has posted here and explained the issues and con's with eH. Funny (well not really) that the Pro's are only on TV ad's!

I feel like I can speak for everyone here but know I can only speak for myself.

We all want to find someone really special. We all have hopes of finding that person. And we all have feelings that can obviously be played around with (well, especially with) 3rd party governance.

I have been divorced for 11 years and only had 1 relationship for 9 months that ended about 3 months back. So very unfortunate for me because I would have given her the world in return for just one thing.... her unconditional love. But I guess it wasn't meant to be. So I had been considering "advertised" dating sites.

My heart felt appreciation to all who have expressed their pains and frustrations and helped me with my decision NOT to proceed with eH.
I am a very gentle loving guy, and would hate to give any lady hope of any type of relationship that can easily be mishandled by a third party. It sounded like a good idea at the time, but that's advertising for you. They tell you what you need, they don't ask you. And you only (well generally) advertise if you have something to SELL. In other words YOU ARE OUT TO MAKE MONEY REGARDLESS OF EMOTIONS OR FEELINGS. After all IT IS A BUSINESS. And by the sounds of it, unfortunately, one without ethics of human feelings.
I wouldn't know how to live with myself knowing I may have given someone that wonderful feeling of hope and joy that all our hearts seek and it turned out to be manipulated, misleading and false promising by an intervening 3rd party out for just one thing. It seems to be the way of the world now... Pay up front and then look at the menu.

Humbly, I guess I am lucky. I've learnt from your misfortunes and I hope WE ALL FIND what what WE ALL NEED... eventually.
Good luck, Kim.

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