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Dated MARRIED eHarm User

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, December 20 2009 @ 06:25 pm

I went through the process and was both hopeful and patient. Only was matched with one person who really "struck me" as someone I might be both intellectually and personality-compatible with...dated him for six months. We're both busy execs, so we didn't move quickly. But, feelings get involved during 3x weekly phone calls, emails, face-to-face lunches, etc. 2nd time in bed six months in, realized for sure that he is married - like, actively living with the spouse married, NOT separated. We're both at CEO level in our companies, so I hadn't really had time to pinpoint all of the indicators of this, as being too busy to find someone to date was the reason I turned to eHarm in the first place. I had also wanted a means of dating that would be based upon who I am inside versus exterior-based "shopping" for dates, as I attract really ridiculous men based on my "blonde girlie" looks. So, this is what I get? I confronted him about it, he of course denied. Did my research. Yes, actively married with three daughters. Everyone living in the same house...how cute. Ran into his family at my local grocery store, had to pretend I was "nobody."

I contacted eHarm and they told me, "prove it." I provided the paper trail, his bios and info from online, etc...trust me, I had to work hard to ensure I was right (I'm a media reporter...did real research, for sure). They refused to pull him out of circulation and instead kicked me off, permanently. I'm totally banned, as is my credit card. I demanded reimbursement...they refused, even though my time and money were severely wasted. Their customer service was the WORST and they were more concerned with keeping it quiet than fixing my situation by providing any kind of recourse. They flat-out did not care...why? He was a one year subscriber, I was a 3-month subscriber. I know this, as he had told me and confirmed he receives the magazine or whatever.

REALLY DISGUSTED. It was the typical scenario of blaming the victim.

PS: Karma does catch up to these losers, though (the guy I dated)...his corporate stock crashed and company went out of biz in a big scandal. I'll consider that my payback and I am hopeful now he can't afford eHarm's fees anymore. That's what someone who cheats others gets: a Karma slap.

Dated MARRIED eHarm User

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Wednesday, January 30 2013 @ 12:21 am

I would have told his wife when you saw them in the grocery store. Or played dumb and said, I didn't know you were married! you should have told me on our last date! Glad karma got him!

Dated MARRIED eHarm User

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Friday, September 27 2013 @ 03:29 am

Eh, bad advice to tell his wife at the store, especially when she has 3 kids to take care of. What this douche did was wrong but not fair to destroy a family over it.

Sorry to the poster that this guy wasn't who he said he was.

Dated MARRIED eHarm User

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, December 27 2009 @ 05:56 pm

Would you like to hook up then since your free at the moment? :p

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