most small date sites are just a PC chugging away in a locked room with auto bot software with fake profiles collecting card numbers run by fraudsters at some place in the world ..out of reach of the law..
Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.
Yes there are.
I have recently met two ladies online. Had very pleasurable date with both of them. Both from "Naughty Seniors", though that database is used by a number of dating companies
I am 66. One was 65 and the other 73.
My approach?
Be up front, be honest and be a gentleman. Don't appear to be desperate - that won't appeal to anyone.
In fact, not only don't APPEAR to be desperate. Don't BE desperate
The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com
Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website.
Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership.
That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.