Don't go to "meet a mature" total scam.....funny that nearly all the ladies come from Derby. It is a total scam just to encourage guys to have a sexual chat and draw you in.
I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.
One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.
On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me...