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Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?


There are.. RHP possibly the best i have found. You have to invest your time and be willing to chat a bit first but can and does pay off.. Recently tried AUSSIE SWINGERS CLUB total rip off!!! Do not spend your time or money on this web site. Very user unfriendly, and full of time wasters and cons and expensive to boot. Don't even join as a non paid member as they will send you fake mail making out members are interested in you with the only way to reply to them is becoming a paid member.. Shame there are crap sites like these ruining what the internet made hooking up so easy about.


In my view they all are a con in one way or another,I tried OkCupid ,I tried the free route sent some messages and what a surprise messages were sent to me but I had to pay to see them.
When I paid and went on the damn message was from OkCupid themselves,I asked for a refund after cursing them out and was told I was banned and no refund because I broke their rules ,but I was not abusive to any so called users.
Other sites find you matches such as POF but they don't follow your request such as distance,age,non smoker but all the matches were from over 100 miles away from me and even smokers.
I am disillussioned and pissed off ,oh and to top it off the amount of scam profiles which prey on guys is horrendous.
Don't trust any of the sites.


they all use a standard format to con people

give a free signup

entice guys with photos of attractive women some naked

flood mailbox with phony messages which appear to come from genuine women

guys get curious about the messages and handover card details despite these women have never checked their profile

make it very difficult or impossible to cancel with fake phone numbers or email addys that never get replied to

if you cancel cards then they threaten debt collectors will visit you ..these are empty threats but some are terrified and keep paying..


I foolishly decided to to pay for a 3 month Golden Membership on & during that period my decision was unjustified.
The majority of replies you'll receive are from fake accounts, and after building a rapport, try scam you for money!!

It was a complete waste of time and money...


I can confirm what most people say. If you are looking for sex only, unless you are in the 1% rich/model, its better to save up and pay an escort. I have tried dozens of sites, posted ads on classifieds (craigslist till it got removed, now doublelist), and i never met a girl. Every time they ask for me to sign up to a website (SCAM alert), or other *censored* like that. I dont live in the downtown area of a city, i live a bit away from it (far suburbs), but i managed to get a few escorts for an hour for a decent price (200$ for GFE (kissing and bareback suck)). Thats the only way i got sex.

Old guy

That guy who said he's getting laid left and right off eHarmony is full of *censored*. eHarmony deliberately screens out people like him that want to score or are too sexually minded when they answer questions. That's just a f'ing LIE.

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