Online Dating & Relationships Forums

I find more and more lately that all dating sites (especially those that allow you to message for free) have mainly many girls that only are looking for johns, not a relationship.

and likely to be russian pimps pulling their strings /and using fake photos

These sites are actually hookup sites and NOT dating sites. That said, there are code words used to signify paid company. I remember when the word "date" indicted paid company lol. Anyway, if you see an $ taking the place of an "S" anywhere in a profile or message take it they are an escort. If the user says anything about appreciating her time this signifies a paid date. An escort can rightly use a hookup site since that is exactly what she will be doing, albeit with a donation for her time. If she says anything about roses - these are $100 bills being referred to. I believe there are more straight and to the point means of setting up an appointment with an escort.
If your looking to find the love of your life or mother to your children please sign up on a dating site and not a hookup site.

More than anything, when you detect a stank ho, report her immediately. Don't stand for that kind of shade even though the owners of the hookups sites do nothing about them. Who knows, maybe they're taking a cut of the "action."

If the women are nude or in skimpy clothes otherwise showing off her body you are on a hookup site. If theyre showing above the neck shots its a date site. If the about me section of her profile says nothing to indicate anything physical its a date site

If profile pictures are mostly featuring above the neck shots or non provocative full length you are on a dating site.