My question is - when eHarmony sends me pictures of 5 matches - do you send them to both people? Do they get a picture of me too? Does anyone know?

Thanks

Yes, as far as I know for the matches. If you are sent a match they will be sent your profile. It may not exactly happen at the same time but it will. I had asked that of one of my matches a little while ago because I was curious about the question as well.