This issue has me really feeling stupid as I am very picky with the girls I date. How do you handle the situation when your girlfriend has had many partners and past relationships?

I am in my thirties and I love my current girlfriend deeply. She is very attractive. I realize everyone has a past and most people my age have had at least a couple of sexually relationships. I am not completely conservative but I grew up believing sex is not casual. It has to mean something to sleep with a person. I know that the past should be the past but how do you deal with this when you and your partner have different morals?

Others must have this problem so I hope the people who read this forum can answer my question.

I say you need to return to the 20th century. By their thirties 99% of people are not virgins. If this is bothering you so much you either need to bury it or move on since you cannot change her past.

If she is truly the girl of your dreams and has the personality to match I hope you give your relationship a chance.