I find a lot of women talk about the chemistry between a man and a woman. I don’t think I have ever felt it. I have had many relationships and they have always been with good looking well liked people. My family has always liked who I have been with but for me I have never felt a real connection. I have always liked the person I am with and are physically attracted to then, and I enjoy the physical part of a relationship, but that spark or chemistry has never been there.

I don’t think chemistry is the lust and physical attraction 2 people feel especially when the relationship is just starting. What is chemistry anyways and how do I know if I have it with my significant other? How do I find it?