I've been trying various dating sites enough to understand a few key things. Me being a guy, that girls will be girls. 90% ignore me. It sounds like other guys have the same issue.
So this is hard to ask, but are there dating sites where people are actually serious and willing to date?

It is mind boggling to have a person pay $30 on average a month, and ignore guys. I mean, why not say something back? See if something does happen. I think it's rude to ignore someone. I'd rather hear "thanks, but no thanks." than nothing at all.

I am not after one night stands. I have no pictures with a shirt off. I am not asking for offers or benefits at all in any way, shape or form.

It tires me sending a message to a girl, and get no reply.

I'm sure the best solution is to forget the online dating and only stick to offline. I figured, maybe one more chance.

I did read a previous post about someone saying "goggle good dating sites." Problem is, I come across the same few I tried and didn't like. And then for fun, I goggle the bad reviews from sites, and oh my, what a shock, same sites have bad reviews.

Thanks for your time