Phony photos, phony messages. I joined for a year and didn't get one date. Hey, I do fine with women in the real world --- I'm decent looking and a professional. Just for a test using a basic account, I recently put up an identity with a photo of an unbelievable fat slob who lived with his parents, did not have a job, at 38 finally got his GED, and could not pick someone up because his Yugo has been in the shop. You guessed it, all kinds of messages from beautiful women who wanted to meet in person. For those who do not know, women get a free account by putting up a photo and can send and receive messages. Guys have to pay for that. It is a total scam and should be shut down.