Hey,

I burned through my credits the first few times on AM and learned to be more careful. Its really easy for guys to go through them on AM since there are 100s guys to 1 girl on this site. I usually send winks to check for indication of interests. Sure, the real indicators are pretty clear. But, on alot of my winks, I get response wink saying I prefer a full message instead of wink. I never get a response back from them. My question, Guys and Ladies, best to ignore those response winks about requesting full message? WHat is the best approach on AM? Thanks

Take it from a guy who has used AM. Skip the winks! If you can't think of something witty, genuine and personable to say to the lady, you are just wasting your (and hers) time.

As a female on AM, I can tell you that I get dozens of winks, about 5 messages, and the multiple dozens of page views, every day. That's a lot of contacts to sift through, especially if I'm not logging on every day (which I'm not).

You want a woman to contact you? Ya gotta stand out from the crowd. You want your wink to be sufficient to gain her attention? Then make sure your profile is detailed. Skip the checkboxes and write actual sentences.

FemAnon…yes girl! Guys please heed this woman’s advice! I just signed up yesterday, and the amount of guys that put 0 effort in, and especially the ones that ask just to see my pictures, are a hard NOPE… next!