2012/01/29 09:21am  
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I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 3 years about 4 weeks ago. Last weekend I had my first date with a girl I just met. We went for dinner and drinks and ending up back at my place. She did stay the night. We didn't have s*x but we almost did.

It went a little farther than I thought it would last night. I just wish it did not happen. I realize it is not the right time for me to be in a relationship after my recent break-up. I am also not that into this girl since she sounds like she has a lot of emotional problems.

How should I break it off with her? Should I just not call her? Or should I call or text her telling her I am not interested?
 2012/02/01 09:25am  
JAY
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Do not be one of those guys that give the rest of us a bad name. Call the girl and let her know that you do not want to continue seeing her. Blame yourself that you are not ready yet for a new relationship. There is nothing worse than not having someone call you after a date.
 2013/01/29 02:05am  
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Honesty is the best policy. If she reaches out to you, let her know that it was a mistake and you need more time to get over your ex. Don't string her along because it will just make your life harder than it needs to be.
 2015/03/18 11:54am  
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You have to say it
 2017/12/14 12:24pm  
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Quote by: BRew23

You have to say it



Exactly. Even if it hurts! I actually did a bad things before but really need to tell the person that you don't love her. then cheating on her.
 2017/12/25 01:50am  
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Totally agree with @BRew23 and @ryecody1986. You have to say truth to her. Run away is not solution at all. Tell her that you don't love her.
 2018/02/01 02:39am  
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Quote by: Anonymous

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 3 years about 4 weeks ago. Last weekend I had my first date with a girl I just met. We went for dinner and drinks and ending up back at my place. She did stay the night. We didn't have s*x but we almost did.

It went a little farther than I thought it would last night. I just wish it did not happen. I realize it is not the right time for me to be in a relationship after my recent break-up. I am also not that into this girl since she sounds like she has a lot of emotional problems.

How should I break it off with her? Should I just not call her? Or should I call or text her telling her I am not interested?




Heeeey. how are things going on? Did you tell her?
 2018/02/12 05:25pm  
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Be upfront. Call to say how you feel, apologize and say your not ready for a relationship.
 2018/04/06 03:11am  
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Her emotional problems will become even worse if you don't respond to her texts.

I'd rather break it off after meeting over a cup of coffee. The pain will slowly subside
 2021/07/05 08:37pm  
Amen
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I know this is an old post but a good lesson here. Honesty is the best policy always.

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