This is not something I can talk about with my friends since they all know the people involved.

I find myself in love with 2 men.

The first one is caring and always puts me first.

The second one I have more in common with and is much more like me but I find he more often than not puts his needs before me.

I find myself wanting to concentrate on one relationship now and find someone I hope I can eventually marry.

How do you pick between 2 men that I find I love equally? Has anyone else been in similar relationships, who did you pick?