I left POF due too married men and players and went to E vow in hopes of meeting someone serious and seeking a LTR. I received many contacts from men who would ask me for very personal information,. They would ask questions with a combination of things to sound like they wanted to get to know me. I looked at the e -mail after and it was obvious they were all asking a list of questions that would aid them in some sort of scam. Please be careful, I don't even think these people are in the U.S. you can detect an accent in the way the e-mails are written, but they insisted they were in America. ( not saying my State which would be the norm.) I had 3 men within 2 weeks approach me in the same manner. I would not recommend E vow to anyone.