That site has some good features and I actually like their personality and sex tests. I think they were accurate. HOWEVER, you have to be careful when you sign in because they check a box that basically say that they will send winks from your account to women who are a possible match. The wink system is thus automated and once you contact the member, he/she has never sent you a a wink!!! Also, I read a lot of bad stuff about people getting charged though they canceled and it was a real pain to cancel... lots of waiting. I was just a non-paid member and it was easy to cancel my account by mail... since then, no fake wink nottifications... but I heard they can reactive your account... My advice would be to never give your CC to that site... Oh and yeah, I received one email with a yahoo address but I still wait for my answer. All these dating sites have the same problem. I will date real women in the real life. That is not as difficult as it looks.