There is one basic member that I want to communicate with. This is someone I know, so she is real. I am fairly sure she will not pay to join. I am willing to throw away $30 just to get in touch with her, but not by phone. Question is, if I join, what info will the site allow in the email? Will it let me give another email address, or do they filter that info out? If I can't send my email address, I see no point in joining, since she will have no way to respond.

sexsearch.com is totally free for women so if you join she'll definitely be able to respond to you and she doesn't have to pay anything.

Well, I decided to contact Customer Service directly. They told me I could not post an email address in an email. They said it was to prevent the "bad guys" from getting my email address and spaming me. Right.

it doesn't matter that you can't post an email address in the email. she'll respond to your sexsearch email address and you'll read her email response on sexsearch and respond to her through the site. it's not like she has to send the email to some other email address you have in order for you to set up a meeting with her. the next step would be trading phone #s

they are not monitoring each message you send them - they just have a tracker program that searches and blocks preset words such as hotmail.com , yahoo.com etc etc what you need to do is get creative.write her a message like this if you your username on hotmail or yahoo or gmail was IMLOOKING i know you only have a basic membership so you will have to find a IMLOOKING way to send me a HOT message thru the MAIL dit cam or i would love to IMLOOKING out for you on YOOHOO or perhaps IMLOOKING for you on Gee for any sort of MAIL that you want to send me. you get the idea , if she has a half a brain she will too. the trackers cannot pick up on that also you could send her your phone number like this 2 1 2 5 5 5 1 2 1 2 enjoy and hit it hard if she has a friend hook a brother up , for the help i gave you

Get creative like instead of saying yahoo say the site with the "Y" or the site thats really "HOT". I have seen even YjhccnAjkdcbnluhvHjscObc,kjqO telling the person to just use the capital letters.There are ways to fool the cencesorship of some sites.Just think outside the box.

Get creative like instead of saying yahoo say the site with the "Y" or the site thats really "HOT". I have seen even YjhccnAjkdcbnluhvHjscObc,kjqO telling the person to just use the capital letters.There are ways to fool the cencesorship of some sites.Just think outside the box. Also there is a site called Plenty of Fish thats all free and a great site to meet people in ur area.