Well in my opinion it is a scam. When you first join up you get tones of posable potential "dates". Then like a dummy I thought, hey what the heck and became a paid member. I bet you cant guess what happened! All of a sudden you are left in the cold. No matter how you act, Polite, Risque, BadBoy you act, your inbox stay empty. And the few messages you do get are so mundane and vague you know there fake. Im sure there are one or two real women on there plus a hand full of prostitutes, but is it worth your money? I dont think so. Im mean think about it, do you really think there are that many women out there that will jump into bed with a stranger from an affair sex internet site? Come on, don't get fooled like I did and so many before me....