Hi all -

I've been on hundreds of these online dates (I know, I have issues) Anyway, here goes:

Eharmony.com - Actually pretty fun, but only because I know I'm NOT looking for a computer generated soulmate.

ItsJustCoffee.com - Free, fancy looking, and some down to earth hotties. A free site with a lot of potential. I do well here

Salon.com personals. Anything by springstreet rocks. An eclectic database of hipsters is always fun. I've had some really interesting dates here. The database is a little edgy if you like that.

~Theya

Have you tried Citydate.com? I didn't have any luck on itsjustcoffee, but I have on Citydate, it's free too. Funny I didn't think anyone knew about itsjustcoffee... laters my fellow daters..

Here, here on salon.com! If urbane smarties are your thing, you might also want to check out www.intellectconnect.com. Eharmony is good, but not if you're gay or have been divorced more than a certain number of times. (They'll actually reject your application in either case.)