WHen I was a member on Adult Friend Finder, I got alot of spam and bots emailing me and trying to get me to join another site, just to see their profile. I had maybe 1 good one that I met on Afriendfinder, but the rest were bogus profiles, and AF was constantly taking these pages down. Ive had better luck on facebook and Myspace. Its an easy way to meet real people in your area and its FREE. You just gotta have a special way to approach them, and on facebook its easy because you can use your network to branch out to people you don't personally know. Ive been told I need to write a book on this. LMAO