Is there a dating site where a moderator does any kind of screening? I would reject all women looking for younger men. That should be reserved for the sex sites. Every site I have seen has mostly older women looking for younger men. I don't know one single man who is looking for an older mate unless it is for money or sex. I want a woman to be a wife and companion for life. My wife passed away and now I am seeking another life partner. I am well educated and make a good living so I don't need a woman to support me. I am 65 years old, but look like I am in my 40s. I am slim, muscular and very attractive.

The last woman I dated spoke frankly when I asked her out. Rather than rejecting me, she asked my age. I was 15 years older than her, but she said, "How old are you, I don't date younger men." I dated a woman who was 26 years younger and people thought we were the same age. I do not want a woman who looks like she could be my mother or my daughter. If I were a moderator, I could look at the photos and match people accordingly. If notified that a member was using a bogus photo, they should be banned from the site.

All those people who submit misleading photos do no service to themselves; they just appear to be liars when you meet them.

I used to only date women who were a few years older than myself at one time. No reason, just happened.

then I DId seek out older womn thinking they had thier act together (WTONG) The oldest was early 40's and I was mid 30's-I think. It lasted 3 months. She even had it timed where she never dated the same guy for more than 3 months!

So much for my theory of older womne having it together.