Any info or success on blackbook (ya gotta put 3 x's in fromt - the spam filter here won't let me list it right) or Ok Cupid? Both are dot coms.

I'm tired of looking at pics that bear NO resemblance to the people there...

Only experience with okcupid. First it seemed like a great site. Then the forum lynch mobs soon arrived if you post on THEIR forums since they think they own the site.

The women are the same flakes-literally since you see the SAME faces on all the free sites.

I have given up on on line dating and am planning to relocate out of this country to South America or Eastern Europe. I will be used by women there but at least I will be treated like a man. And I am sick of 50 year old women who are cougers, loaded with baggage and kids at their age, or just mean and bitter.

Life is too short

I've used OKCupid.com several times to meet real, fun women. Success on OKC is directly proportional to how much effort you put into it. What else can you ask for? Free emails, free matching and real humans that respond to your emails. If you decide to use OKCupid, carefully read the intended recipients profile, look at their pictures and ask yourself "Am I what they are looking for?" "Are they what I'm looking for?". Women are ALWAYS complaining that jackass men don't read their profiles before messaging. Even if the lady is local and hot, if she said she's NOT looking for sex on the first date and your first email is filled with what you're gonna "do" with her on date 1, uhm, no surprise if she doesn't respond. Again, put in the effort and you can find very kewl people on OKC to meet up with.