well when i was in college i went into eharmony and built a profile. and 3 years later my email account was full of emails from them and seamd like every other site that was out there. i dont understand how this happened. i went into one site 3 years ago and every other site knew my name and email address. can someone explain becouse this small action cost me my marrage. even tho i was single whhen i went into the site. wyle married 2 years later i would get messages from other sites i never went into. leading my wife to think i was looking for another women. these sites are deceaving and minipulative. and you people better be careful. any feedback or advise would help me thanks