I have chosen to leave the daing world. My sanity was at stake. After a few weeks, I feel a LOT better. And I have given a lot of thought to the past 7 years that I have spent seavhing for a girlfriend.

Here is what i have found.

1. Women in middle age are hard to get along with. They want to compete on every level and they MUST win. They must make more money, have a better job, etc.
2. Middle age women are ultra high maintenance. They expect men to pay for exverything and still ahve money for Armani on a first date.

3, people are just meaner since 9-11

4. I have lost count of how many potentila dates seemd promising only to be crap. I was not interested. I have no idea about the woman. When they hit 50, most women don't age like a man. And the few that age well think they are supermodels.

That means that they did not get fat.

5. Speaking of fat. That seems to be the only women that ever send intial e mails. Who wants a rally fat chick? Be honest. Do you wnat a fat guy?

6. Dating is the most expensive activity I know of and I know a LOT of high end activities. This is where hookers come into play (no oun)

7. While initially a hooker is more than a date (sometimes), it is a sure thing. And mnost guys just want to get laid. If they can find a girlfriend , the nice evenings stop and its TV and bed.

So that is the only GOOd thing about a girlfriend.

8. Lastly, a hooker is more honest. It is all about money. They are just more open about it.

Hello , Girlfriend is better then hooker. it's your luck who are your girlfriends . what is her feeling if you have mutul understanding you got a lot off love on your girlfiend and it's will be true love. your life fill with joy. so enjoy with girlfriend.

John I have no idea what you are trying to say. Firebird I am with you almost 100%. I am about to step out of the dating scene myself. I have worst luck than you. I get girls that would give me their numbers and ask me to call them. When I do they don't return my call or they would ask me to stop calling. WTF. I am not a high roller but I am not cheap. I always pay for my dates and open doors for them. I have a career, a car and a house but yet the girls I go out with end up picking a looser that dropped out of school and has no job or car. I am decent looking and very much in shape. I just don't get it, why are women choosing looser, abusers and cheaters over a gentleman? I use to feel sorry for girls that are in bad relationships, but now I don't any more and here is why:
- Women have more choices when it comes to dating. (Think about it... it's not often a single guy reject a girl. A single girl on the other hand would reject guys all day long. Until they pick that nice looking cheater/looser.)
-So even with all the great choices out there they somehow pick the wrong guy and later cry about.
Conclusion: They are in the situation because of their poor choice or judgment and I have no sympathy for them.

Having a girlfriend is very fulfilling emotionally, they give us a sense of security and manliness. Along with that we get confusion, bills and nagging headaches.

A hooker can save you time and money, but when the party is over you are still alone and a lot of time its a very empty feeling.

If only we could have both...lol

Hey yea I have had tht as well.. girls tht have agreed to give me their number, but didnt text back or answer phone calls.. and there was one that texted me back first couple of days, but later decided I was weird. Also, ive had problems and found it hard to start conversations on person.com

A girlfriend is better she will make your life with joy.

My suggestion is get a realdoll. Mine is body 2 head 3. I get a lot of wierd looks when I take her out to restaurants etc etc but once you have a realdoll, you can't get exited over a real woman.