You might also have noticed that the women who do respond to your profile, tend to live a few hours drive from you. At least that was what i noticed with the responses i got before I even finished my profile, or joined up (I still haven't). I strongly believe this is just a scam to get horny men (and women) to part with their cash, thinking they're going to get screwed. While, maybe they ARE getting screwed, just not the kind of screwing they had in mind. And DON'T give out your phone number to just anybody!