Pros' It is totally free like plentyof fish but much nicer looming
Women at first seemed earger to meet (at first)

Con's

Limited selection in Dallas (major city) area)
Women are just as flakey as match and POF/
Mean foums like POF

My experience after less than a week: I e mailed one woman who did not want to go thouht the endless e mail route. Great/ She asked for my number and I proposed to exhange them. But it is a Mexican Standoff when it comets to rxhanging numbers.

She wants my number but won't even give me her cell since she does not know me.

Itsn't that what phoning is about-you have to have phone numbers and there has to be mutual agreement. Next time I exhange a phone number, I want her word in an e mail that she will send me her number (of course it is not enforceable but you can talk about her on the fourms I guess)

She calls and she admits taht she is interested in some guy she met but he is not interest in her.

I would be the consolation prize.

After 10 years of not ebeing in a relatioship, I am not going to be a damn consolation prize!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Afte about 20 minutes, she says her cell battery is about to die and we have 30 seconds left. Why call someone you should want to make a good impression with a dead cell battery"

bottom line. Same ofl *censored*.

Dude, I just wanted you to know, I laughed soo hard for a good minute after reading your quip about being a "consolation prize".

You didn't deserve that kind of treatment from the woman. And she could have at least come up with better excuses. The good news is: we're not all like that, hehe....

Good luck in finding that special someone. Next time, you will sure as hell be the prized catch

I suspect when the boomers hit soical security age (as they are just starting to), the men to wmen ratio that women have previously enjoyed will diminsh at a huge rate.

From the stats I have read, when you hit your senior years, it is NOW in the favor of the men. WHY?

Becuase men do not live as long as women ( I suspect they diesfrom the stress of trying to please women whne they were younger). I am NOT joking about this statement.

So there are literally more women than men .

But boomers are wild cards. This has been the norm before the boomers. When a man's wife died, all the old women would desend on the guy with all kinds of treats and offers.

My trouble is-I am not attracted to women in their 60's or older. I don't care if they had platic surgur and may still look reasonably decent. Or kept their figure. Or their ex husband who is now dead left them a lot of money.

I am not seeking a 20 or 30 year old as I near my senior years (still a while off).

But i was watching the movie American Gigalo (think that was the name). Richard Gere is the hired help so to speak. It was digusting to see him with someone old enough to be his mother. And who does he fall for in the end.?

A woman who is gorgeous and HIS age.

I am hanging it up or moving to Latin America when I hit social security age.

To the women-you are losing out on a good guy. And I dance with the one I brought to the dance as they say.

But i am not going to the dance alone and seek out an old woman who would not give me the time of day when she was younger.