In my area on marriedcafe.com, there were profiles for a little over 100 women, but I stopped counting after 1000 guys. When I first logged on I got emails from three different attractive girls, and a couple more replied to my notes. All the emails sounded canned, and the replies to my emails often did not have anything to do with what I wrote. One even replied angrily about some phantom dispute with me that never occurred. All of them talked in generic terms about our new "relationship" when nothing specific about either of us had been exchanged yet. I realized pretty quickly that these were fake profiles and that the site was sending out fake emails to give the impression that I was getting activity on the site. It's too bad that these con operations are able to rip people off without any kind of regulation preventing it. I'd love to meet the owner of one of these sites and ram his head into his monitor a few times.

All the reply's sound the same, none of them answered my questions to my response. Married Cafe is a total scam...

I received 2 emails from at least 9 different attractive women. Once I joined the site, and replied, I received emails again from each of them. All of the women replied, however their responses seemed the same, referring to our 'relationship'. I'v been scammed. It won't happen again! I wouldn't be a bit surprised if the same female profiles were used in each market to get people to join the site. DON'T DO IT.... IT'S A WASTE OF MONEY. I have found Match.com and SinglesNet to be very reliable sites with real people whom you can communicate with and even meet.

I too got burned with "Married cafe". I wonder why for a while why the answers didn't match my questions, like they were all "generic'
When a 19 year old gilr responded to my profile, I knew somehting was up. I canceled it and now am really pissed at the whole deal.
Live to learn.

Yeah it is a total rip off. I got emails from several people and they always say the same things ike "maybe we should talk more", "You saved my life, I thought I would never find anyone again". Then you ask to meet them or any question for that matter and it NEVER!!!!!! gets answered NEVE.

I knew this was going on last month when I wrote a few, and their replies were not even related to my emails. Then I did a test. I sent about 100 cookie-cutter emails to all the profiles that I had written in the past, accusing them of being a part of a scam ring. Within two weeks, I got two emails. One saying the same ole crap like I had never sent them the accusation email. The other one saying that she felt we should stop conversing, that we are not getting anywhere. WTF? As you know, when you would write someone, their reply came right after the subscription had expired.

I did notice this morning the website is down. Not sure if that is temporary or not.

JW

Amateur Match does the same "canned replies". They must have a library of pictures that would fill a room. I'm not impressed with Ashley Madison either.

The only one I might consider paying to join is Singlesnet, at least the pictures are good.

Guess I got scammed too. It took a week to get a reply then I got 3 all the same day and they all seemed canned and scripted. Answerd all three and never got another reply. All my responses were very laid back with nothing suggestive, just generic chat about want to talk some more but on the phone. Now I cannot even access the site to cancel my account. Guess I will have to see my bank to stop additional billing on my card. My only advise on using this site is, DONT!

I think Cougar911 is the same type of scam website.

www.cougar911.com

Does anyone know if there is a discreet dating/affairs site out there that ISN'T a scam?