I see several hundred 'looks' at posts but few seem to ever post anything or reply to a post.

Why is that?

If you want this forum to work, you have to PARTICIPATE.

And it IS a good forum. Much better than that ____pof set of forums where it is nothing but nasty people saying the same things.

How true! Of course people have to get the conversation started. I think once that happens it easier for people to reply than come up with a topic themselves. Like me replying to your message!

and now its December.... hmmm well to anyone that reads this and feels like replying..... plz feel free and dont wait a month is at all possible

Ha, ha, maybe a lot of those lurkers work for dating sites, and they're just checking to make sure we don't get any ideas... like starting little neighborhood singles clubs.

I never liked the singles club scene, never seemed to work out for me. For the most part I found the men to be a lot older and a little too old fashion. They expect the woman to always be in the kitchen and cooking for them type mentality.

Online dating has worked best for me.

Not for me...it's been a nightmare

Hey