If you see a link to "KissandTalk.com" don't bother clicking on it. Save your time and money to spend elsewhere because KissandTalk is a waste of cash and time. After being on the site for a few months I have met no-one. On other sites I have been very successful, and seeing as I havent changed my approach with KissandTalk, I dont think I am projecting the wrong impression to the female side. On Kissandtalk I have messaged and chatted with many women, however when it comes to asking for their email adresses many say they either dont have one (online without an email address nowadays? Hardly believable.), or they give one which doesn't exist. You email them there and it comes back not deliverable. EVERY ONE OF THEM! In messages and chats these women appear hot to trot, but when it comes to actually meeting or exchanging email, addresses or phone info.....it doesn't happen. I have been told that this site removes any email addresses you send to someone in a PRIVATE message. I do not know for sure if that is true, but it wouldn't surpise me Its a way of making you send all your messages through tjeir site, and that means $$$$$ to them. At times I have thought that none of the females listed actually exists. That employees of the "service" pose as potential partners. Again I cant say that for sure but it wouldn't exactly come to me as a shock. KissandTalk used to give unlimited message availablity when you bought a 30 day subscription......now you pay the same amount for 100 tokens and at 5 tokens per message and 8 for Instant messaging it doesn't last long. And the desired results just aren't there.

I have been on kissandtalk web site for quite sometimes.
My luck here is the same with any other dating web sites.
I have recently post a picture in my profile.
Then I started to receive some notices, not a lot
but some. Also, instead of asking for the ladies phone#
and email addresses, I let them ask for mine instead should they feel
comfortable this way there is no pressure but mutual and I know the
contact information is accurate. I am on a date
with someone 10 years older but it's satisfying.

I have to side with Anonymous, I have been with Kiss and Talk for over 5 months. The site is a real rip off. You and the lady have no history of messages sent to each other. If the female replies to your message a week later, you haven't got a clue what she is talking about and that I suppose works both ways. The lady reads your reply a week later and she is wondering what you are writing about. Like Anonymous, I am convinced some of these ladies must work for Kiss and Talk, especially the ones that have beautiful photos of themselves that seem to be taken by a pro. I also notice that it always seems that when you run out of credits, you get an avalanche of messages to reply to. I have complained to Kiss and Talk about how their prices have skyrocketed and show no improvements for your money such as the message history mentioned above. I suggested to Kiss and Talk if they want to keep the male members happy, that after the lady replies to the first message you send them, all other messages between you and that lady are FREE. You can spend an easy $250.00 per month for credits on this site and they claim not to be the MOST expnsive but not the cheapest. They have given me 50 extra credits for each 100 I purchased because I was a good customer or should I say sucker. In addition to Anonymous comments, I have been successful using the same conservative method with Kiss and Talk as I have with Adult Friend Finder being more successful with AFF. What I also don't like about Kiss and Talk is that the ladies profile does not indicate when they were last online, You could spend a lot of credits to ladies who log on only once a every couple of weeks. Kiss and Talk says they once had that feature, they removed it because they had too many complaints.....go figure.
The IM system really sucks, it has a crashed on me several times apparently due to bandwidth. Kiss and Talk tells me they are working on a Web Camera feature, that was in January. It sounds like this service is a mom and pop operation running out of someones basement.
Like Anonymous has noted, all the ladies talk the talk but don't walk the walk. One female member told me that my cell number I sent her had ######## instead of numbers, so I spelled out the number for her and she called.

this site is a definate scam...once you pay the 50 odd bucks you begin to get bogus e-mails from " obvious" frauds....there is the odd real person in there...i even had the privilge to meet actually...but it was a lucky find...Worst part was i found out from her later that they actually log you on, and send winks without you knowing...trying to drum up business i guess....and when i try and delete my account...its like they never existed...I just hope they don't scam my frekin credit card as well...

stay away from this piece of *censored*.

thank you

Add me to the list of guys who feel taken to the cleaners by kissandtalk. Whoever said their messages come thick an fast when your credits are just about done. The "women" lead you on to make you think theyre going to meet you, and then you don't hear from them for weeks if ever! Its always that way and maybe anonymous is right, these messages are really written by the people who run the place. Another thing I noticed was you never get messages from the :"women" youve been in touch with on weekends. Makes you wonder if these girls only want action on weekdays or if kissandtalk staff dont work weekends.

I wasted a ton of money and time on kissandtalk. I also noticed you never got any messages from the supposed horny women on the site on the weekend. A real rip off.

Add me to list , Kiss and talk is a rip. I believe the employess of this site are answering the messages , the worst is it's probably guys answering . The way they talk and refer to themselves , screams man . I've been trying to pin them down on , giving me a email (Ihave been giving mine) no luck , I try to ask them of things of local interest or if they have a place they would like to meet, publicly of course , nothing, no answer , I'm from Ottawa area and this is just one big Toronto generated rip-off. I've been on other sites so have an idea on how women chat and behave online and this site is completely different to the point it stinks of fraud.

I have had the same experience using Fling.com, only the ladies give a link to sites where you must pay to verify your age, then pay to join their 'more discreet' site, (where they promise pix and a phone #). After all that, they are not even listed as a member!

hey is there any guys around that would like to cyber

The Ten things you need to know and notice of KissAndTalk.com
(1) Because I am on the West Coast, I was able to see a pattern of messages sent. I then record all the message time. Consistently, all messages are sent before 5:00pm Eastern time that is when the hostess (staff) goes home. You will never receive a message after their 5:00pm. (Eastern time zone)
(2) You will receive a message for each message you send. If you stop, so will the messages no matter how much that person said they care about you. Also notice in the message, they are usually 2 lines to up to 5 lines. If it is 5 lines, that hostess actually they thought you were nice but they have to keep it short because they have to move on to answer another user.
(3) If you sent a message the night before, the answering time falls on a timer that notify the hostess to send message to the client. Again, quite consistent: a morning timer and a afternoon timer. Almost within 15 minutes of same time of the day.
(4) If you concentrate on one person, average 2 message to same person; all other hostess stay away from emailing you. Once you stop contacting this hostess, few days later other hostess will email you and any message from a new hostess comes on you strong.
(5) You will never receive a message from any of these hostess on weekends or holidays, hey these girls are working 9 to 5 probably underpay with no overtime. They will say the husband is watching them the whole weekend and they are unable to send out messages. That to me is impossible unless this so call wife is physically on a leash. Over weeks, and not able to send one message outside of office hours?
(6) The hostess actually post the message on a different system; not via the internet and not via the same Kiss and Talk web application. Why I know? I had more than one instant whereby message was sent to me in and there between was refreshing the online list.
(7) Even the online list is fake. I have record all the different users at different time of the day and conclude they are really not online. Try clicking on Instant Messaging and it will always be either busy or say user don't have the capability of using Instant Messaging.
(8) I then start messaging users online test. Again, if you email those supposedly online after 5:00pm (Eastern Time Zone) you will always receive a message the next morning. Again proofing these girls are working 9:00-5:00 on Eastern time zone.
(9) If you start making skill test question of local scene of the simpliest questions you will get a rude message either saying "I thought your profile is nice and never been insulted" what insult, very simple question of the local scene. Another answer with "am I on a game show". Still, they try to attempt to have you message back to burn out another $0,50 of credit.
(10) If you are able to convince that there is no way out for the hostess to continue message conversation they actually do setup a hotmail account, I guess this is their new protocol. The user name is a total give away though alwaysfuninbc@hotmail.com Not too smart afterall of these girls. The new email account setup is real however don't count on them having the time to read and answer the mail. They will continue with those 2 to 5 liner messages.