I'll be straight - I dragged my feet on this for months. Read a few reviews, kept thinking "maybe later” One evening I just signed up to get it over with.

First week was quiet. Not sure I was doing it right. But I kept at it and somewhere around day ten something clicked. Started actually looking forward to opening the app after dinner. The conversations at the Secretmeet feel less performative than other places I've tried. Nobody's trying to impress anyone. People just talk.

It's not cheap, and the site can be a little slow when I'm on my phone. But I keep coming back, so that probably tells you everything you need to know.