hi all i need some advice for my datinglagoon profile. should i use a photo with my glasses or without honestly i never really take photos of myself most of the time it’s either scary selfies i delete immediately or photos of my dog for memory’s sake but nothing for datinglagoon.
the only decent picture i have is from like two years ago when my cousin visited and actually took a photo of me. i’m wearing my glasses there and i think i look okay but i keep stressing what if it’s not good enough for datinglagoon. the thought of going outside and asking someone to take a photo of me feels completely cringe because i literally never leave the house. don’t even ask why it’s like this but i figured i’d share on datinglagoon.
the chats on datinglagoon are amazing super fun and easy but i wonder if changing the photo would make my conversations increase or decrease like would people be more likely to reach out if i had a new pic or does it even matter honestly stuck between staying with my old cousin-shot photo in glasses or trying something new.

Hey, this is actually a really relatable problem, so don’t overthink it too hard. First of all, if the photo with your glasses looks like you and feels honest, that already counts for a lot. People on Datinglagoon tend to connect more through conversation than through perfectly staged photos anyway and it sounds like your chats are already going great. If you ever want to try something new, you can always take a simple picture near a window with good light. But honestly, on Datinglagoon personality carries way more weight than the perfect profile photo