I joined nostringsattached.com. I paid for the VIP membership. The search function is horrible. There is no way to sort profiles by last visited. I did a search for other VIP members within a 1000 mile radius and it did not yield any positive results. There was 2 but weren't not visited within at least 3 months. To turn of the auto-renew was almost impossible. Do yourself a favor and let others know about this site and save your money.