I am a first time user of dating apps and decided to try Tinder.

I am getting zero responses from my matches when I message them.

I am sending thoughtful messages so I am not sure why.

Tinder keeps wanting me to purchase a gold subscription but there is no way I am doing that if I can't even get a reply.

Does anyone else have this problem and know what to do about it?

Thanks

its a scam
never get replies on tinder if you pay