I have been looking at a few hookup sites and man there are many that look to be complete scams.

All of the more legitimate ones look to require a subscription before you can do any real messaging. I guess there are no real free options to be found.

I've almost decided on joining Adult Friend Finder as it seems to be the oldest and most established site that people still have a chance of hooking up on.

Is that what everyone else suggests?

POF is free to message but a truly awefull selection of woman .dont go there